10 SIGNS THAT A PERSON TRULY LOVES YOU

10 SIGNS THAT A PERSON TRULY LOVES YOU

When someone truly loves you, there are signs and pointers

that shows that and when the person doesn't loves you, there

are signs and pointers too that shows it.

Love is a strong feeling you have towards someone or that

someone has towards you. Love has to do with feelings,

affection. Now, this feeling or affection expresses itself in

words and actions.

Maybe you are in a relationship right now with someone and

you're in doubt or confused whether or not the person truly

loves you, this article is for you. Read on.

1. Attention

Does the person gives you attention or you're the one always

asking and demanding for attention?

We give attention to something or someone that interests us.

We don't waste our time in someone or something we're not

interested in. So, when someone often gives you his or her

attention, it's a sign of interest or love.

That guy that has been eyeing you, always looking for your

attention, that lady showing green light is a sign.

2. Care

Another word for care is maintenance, upkeep or treatment.

So, when someone loves you, the person will show care. He

will take you as his responsibility. She will show concern about

your well-being.

Someone that has nothing for you, doesn't care, they just want

to eat you and go but someone that cares, will provide you

with things necessary for your maintenance, upkeep and

treatment. He or she will provide to the best of his or her

ability.

3. Respect

Respect means to have or show regard for someone, his

personality, opinion and decisions.

So, does your partner respects you, does he show regard for

your person, opinion and decisions? Does she treats you

anyhow? Respect or lack of it is a sign.

4. Give

Giving is also a sign. The Bible said that God so loved the

world and He gave His only Son, Jesus.

When someone loves you, he will give you something. He will

give you his money, gifts, time, company and even himself.

Vice versa.

5. Sacrifice

Sacrifice has always been the true mark of true love. Love is

selfless. Love spends itself at the expanse of the person

loved.

How often does he go out of his way because of you. How

often does he or she sacrifices his comfort because of you?

Now that you are still struggling to start life as a guy, can she

endure and build life with you. So, check it. Sacrifice is a sign.

6. Protection

We protect our own. We protect someone or something we

consider important to us. Does he protect you from harm, his

unruly family members, friends?

When there's love, there will be protection. God protects us

from the onslaught of the devil because He loves us.

7. Jealousy

Jealousy is a sign too. When guys are coming around you as a

lady wanting to toast you, how does your guy react? Does he

show concern that someone may take you from him or he

doesn't send you?

When someone loves you, he will guard and protect you from

being taken by someone else. He will react and fight to win

you over. Vice versa.

8. Forgiveness

Forgiveness means to release the anger, hatred and

resentment you have against someone because of what he did

to you.

Forgiveness is not easy especially when you did nothing wrong

before the person wronged you, like cheating on you when you

have been faithful to him.

When someone easily forgives you despite your wrong doing,

it's a sign of you. Don't take it for granted. Don't think you

deserve it. Forgive is a sign.

9. Tolerance

Tolerance means the ability to endure or to be patient with

something or someone that's not pleasant it maybe pain,

hardship or misbehavior.

So, when someone loves you, he should be able to tolerate

your foolishness, weaknesses, shortcomings and iberiberism.

This does not mean that you go on to be foolish or to

misbehave, no. It means that while the person is tolerant and

patient with you, you work on your weaknesses and

shortcomings because tolerance and patience have a limit. I

have a limit of what I can endure. We are not God that His

mercies endures forever.

10. Vulnerability

Vulnerability is a state of being weak, defenceless, helpless,

unprotected, unguarded, etc. It's also a condition of releasing

yourself to someone. Love always comes with vulnerability.

When you are vulnerable, you're susceptible to attack or being

harm. This is why many people are afraid to release

themselves to anyone because of disappointment, blackmail,

harm, heartbreak etc. You see them appearing hard and fierce,

they're afraid.

When someone is free with you, hides nothing from you,

exposes his or her weaknesses and shortcomings to you, it's a

sign of love and trust. Don't hurt or blackmail someone that's

vulnerable to you. Don't take it for granted. Love doesn't hide

itself.