WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR WIFE REFUSES TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU

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1. PREPARE HER
Sometimes it is not that she does not want to make love to
you but that all you have to do is prepare her with foreplay to
get her in the mood
2. DO NOT FORCE HER
Do not force yourself on her in the name of demanding for
your conjugal rights. Forcing an adult to have sex is rape,
whether that adult is your spouse or not
3. CHECK IF YOU HAVE BEEN HURTING HER EMOTIONS
If you have been hurting or ignoring her emotions, she will
struggle to be sexually attracted to you. Women make love
with their heart. If her heart is bruised, she will struggle to give
you her body
4. CHECK IF LAST TIME YOU WERE TOO ROUGH ON HER
If last time you were too rough on her leaving her vagina,
clitoris or nipples sore; she might be uncomfortable about
letting you have her. Learn to be gentle
5. CHECK IF YOU HAVE UNADDRESSED ISSUES
If there are matters in your marriage that are not being
concluded, intimacy will suffer. Stop ignoring the issues. The
sooner you solve them the better
6. CHECK IF SHE SUSPECTS YOU OF CHEATING
If she knows of or suspects you are cheating, it will be a
barrier between you two. If you have been cheating, stop it
and win back her trust. If she suspects but it is not true, allay
her fears and make her secure
7. CUDDLE HER
Sometimes this means more to her than love making. This
goes a long way to show her she is not a sex object. This
secures her and in doing so, she will enjoy making love with
you
8. GAUGE HER MENSTRUATION CYCLE
Know your wife's monthly period cycle. Not every wife lies they
are on their periods
9. FIND OUT IF SOMETHING IS STRESSING HER
Maybe there is something outside of your marriage that is
disturbing her, maybe it is work issues, financial issues, her
health, the children, her parents, a past trauma. Hear her out
and show her that you are on her side
10. DON'T CHEAT ON HER
Just because she is not in the mood today, doesn't mean you
cheat. She might come around tomorrow depending on how
you two treat each other, but if you cheat on her you might
lose her for good
11. BE PATIENT WITH HER
Life is fluid, with ups and downs. Sometimes she may not be
in the mood just as you are also sometimes not in the mood.
Understand her
12. PUT HER ABOVE YOUR PENIS
Show her that she is more important to you than sexual
pleasure. There is more to marriage than an orgasm. Once you
make her a priority, intimacy will be richer
13. GENTLY ASK HER WHAT IS WRONG
Don't assume or get furious that she is denying you sex.
Simply ask her if she is OK, she will open up and you two will
grow closer

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