DEAR WIVES LISTEN UP

DEAR WIVES...

1. If you want your husband to make love to you often, have a

good attitude. No matter how sexy you look or dress, your

husband will not find you attractive if you have a bad attitude.

2. If you want your husband to be eating with you, be pleasant

to be around. No matter how tasty your food, it loses taste

when being around you is stressful.

3. If you want your husband to be opening up to you sensitive

and difficult information, learn to keep secrets and not to

overreact. A man refrains from sharing too much when he is

scared information will be leaked or be misinterpreted.

4. If you want your husband to be praying with you, stop acting

as if your prayers are more powerful or you are closer to God

than him. Allow your husband to pray his kind of way.

5. If you want your husband to be taking you out often, stop

bringing drama and ruining dates with issues that should be

dealt with at home. No man wants to go spend time and

money at a venue where he will be emotionally drained.

6. If you want your husband to solve the issues in your

marriage, stop seeing yourself as the angel and him the devil,

stop attacking him or labelling him as "The agent the devil is

using to ruin your marriage". See also your fault, show him you

are on the same team and seek solutions, not finger pointing.

7. If you want your husband to come home early, be peaceful.

The wife tends to own the home and so can easily make the

husband keep off if she becomes harsh, uninviting and

combative.

8. If you want your husband to be chatting with you and calling

you up, be fun to talk to, make him miss you. If each time he

calls you or chats you up it ends up with you starting a fight,

reminding him of his wrongs or ordering him around he will

avoid communication with you.

9. If you want your husband to receive your suggestions and

corrections then speak to him with a tone of love. If you come

at him shouting, dictating at him or manipulating him he will

harden up.